About the Book
IS ANYONE’S LIFE . . .
Beth shows that women really can have it all.
Ruby lives life by her own rules.
And then there’s Lauren, living the dream.
AS PERFECT AS IT LOOKS?
Beth hasn’t had sex in a year.
Ruby feels like she’s failing.
Lauren’s happiness is fake news.
And it just takes one shocking event to make the truth come tumbling out…
I’ve loved all of Dawn O’Porter’s novels to date, especially The Cows, and So Lucky is another brilliant read!
So Lucky follows three women: Beth who has a new baby but is very unhappy in her marriage, Ruby who feels she needs to keep her entire body covered at all times, and Lauren who we mainly see through her Instagram posts and seems to have a perfect sparkly life.
I read So Lucky in one sitting as once I started reading it I just didn’t want to put it down. Dawn O’Porter is so good at capturing what it is to be a woman in the modern age and the pressure we all feel to conform to society’s norms. There is a sense that women should be perfect – we should remove all of our body hair and be smiley and happy at all times. Life just isn’t like that!
Beth is besotted with her young baby but she also loves her career so she’s back at working planning Lauren’s wedding but she’s also pumping breast milk and trying to be a good wife. Her husband has had no interest in sex ever since she got pregnant and Beth just wants to feel desired. She’s also having to deal with her interfering mother-in-law who her husband seems to always defer to. I felt really sorry for Beth, it’s so difficult to be in a relationship where your partner won’t discuss issues. My ex was awful for sweeping everything under the carpet and pretending nothing was wrong, it makes for such stress in the home.
Ruby is separated from her husband but she’s cordial with him because they have a three year old daughter, Bonnie. I really felt for Ruby, she had a difficult time as a child and she can’t seem to relate to her own child now. She also has a secret that means she feels she has to keep her body covered at all times. Her attempting to get a wax with her child in the room was so tense and I wanted to climb through the pages and help Ruby.
It was brilliant to read a novel like this where the women are close to my own age. I still have so many insecurities as a 40 year old but it’s not always represented in novels as much as it is for younger women. It felt like Beth represented the not being allowed to be who you are and to talk openly about what you want in life, and Ruby represented all the body issues that women have. They were both such real women to me though and I could see myself, and women I know, in both of them.
Lauren is a younger woman on the verge of marrying the man of her dreams. We get to know her through her instagram posts that are full of inspirational hashtags and often sponsored. She seems to have a perfect life. As the novel progresses we find out that Beth is Lauren’s wedding planner, and Ruby is going to work on the wedding photos so through them we get to meet Lauren in real life, and it seems all is not quite as glossy as it seems on her Instagram. She has an over-bearing mother and fears that her fiance might be attracted to other women. It really showed how social media allows us to give the impression that our lives are so perfect but the reality is that everyone has their insecurities and their problems but we forget that sometimes and think we’re the only one.
I love how real all three women felt in this novel, and how we gradually get to know why they are the way they are and we see how they try to accommodate for what they see as their inadequacies. There are some utterly mortifying moments in the novel, which were toe-curling in the embarrassment factor but I loved that because life is like this. Things often aren’t as we might imagine them to be!
Ultimately, I found this a really relatable, moving novel that also saw the funny side of things too. I very much enjoyed this book and I already can’t wait to read Dawn O’Porter’s next book! I highly recommend this one!
I received a copy of this book from Harper Collins via NetGalley. All thoughts are my own.
So Lucky is out now and available here.
14 thoughts on “So Lucky by Dawn O’Porter”
Wow sounds like a fun read. This is a new author for me. And you have loved all her books. So I have to read this ❤️
It’s such a good book, I recommend it. She previously wrote two YA novels – Paper Aeroplanes and Goose which I really enjoyed. Then last year she wrote her first book for adults called The Cows which is brilliant. I hope you get to read her novels and that you enjoy them as much as I do.
I have to check her out now
This sounds so good – it is great to read about people you can relate to in some way. Very striking cover too!
It’s such a good read, I recommend it. I love the cover, it really catches the eye.
It’s very important to show the real lives behind the social media gloss, so it sounds like this book does a good job as well as being entertaining.
So Lucky was such a good read, I really enjoyed it.
It sounds as though these are really interesting characters, Hayley. And it’s quite true, isn’t it, that our real are almost never what they may look like on the surface. I’m glad you enjoyed this.
Thanks Margot. So Lucky was such a good read and I very much enjoyed it.
Thanks for writing your lovely review. These characters sound so genuine and I would love to get to know them.
Thank you so much 🙂 It’s a really good book, I recommend it.
What a fabulous review, Hayley. And I think you’re right. We all struggle with our inner demons and social media is the perfect way to go on keeping up appearances – which just makes us all continue to feel even more wretched as everyone else has clearly nailed it and we’re the only losers… It was the same imperative that forced women to scrub their front step every single morning so they weren’t judged as failures by the neighbours back in the early 20th century…
Thank you so much 🙂 Yes, that’s very true – we’ve always felt a pressure to keep up appearances no matter what we might be going through.
I read this book last night in one sitting and definitely agree – the book was so moving!