About the Book
Ravine and Marianne were best friends. They practised handstands together, raced slugs and went into the woods to play.
But now everything has changed.
Ten years later, Ravine lies in a bed plagued by chronic pain syndrome. And her best friend Marianne is gone.
How did their last adventure go so wrong? Who is to blame? And where is Marianne?
My Thoughts
I’ve been eagerly anticipating the release of The Things We Thought We Knew for a little while now so I was thrilled when the publisher offered me an ARC to review recently. I’m so happy to say that this book was even more incredible than I was hoping it would be and I loved every minute that I was reading it.
I initially wanted to read The Things We Thought We Knew because I was fascinated to read a novel where the main character suffers from chronic pain, as it’s not something that is often found in novels. Mahsuda Snaith examines, in such a sensitive way, the complexities of pain – the way that pain can be physical and very real, and yet have roots to it that are emotional. I suffer with severe pain due to my spinal cord injury so am really drawn to books that explore pain in any way. In this book the character does recover early in the story but it’s the exploration of the reasons for her pain that moved me deeply. It takes a gentle hand to explore this without patronising people, like me, whose pain is unlikely to ever be better, and I really admire that in this book. Ravine ends up pretending about her physical pain but because I could see the other pain she was in I genuinely always felt sympathy for her – the physical pain that was real at one stage in her life became the only way she could block out the pain of her friend being gone.
‘There isn’t a constellation for pain, but if there were it would sweep over half the sky and be connected by a hundred stars.’
I was immediately drawn into the intrigue as to where Ravine’s best friend Marianne had gone. The novel opens in the present day and Marianne and her family have been gone from next door for a long time. Yet Ravine is in a state of limbo wondering where her best friend has gone. The picture of the childhood friendship of these two girls is gradually built up and I very much enjoyed reading this part of the book. It’s heartbreaking knowing that something pulled the two girls apart – the mystery of this had me hooked but it was more the way Ravine wrote about Marianne, a friend she clearly adored. These two girls had such a bond and Ravine lost herself when Marianne went away, and this affected me so deeply. This quote actually made me cry, it’s so poignant:
‘Even as a child I knew my life was rooted in yours. How am I meant to carry on when the roots have been pulled out?’
This is a coming-of-age novel about finding your place in the world, and about coming to an understanding of why people are the way they are. I really enjoyed reading about Ravine’s childhood as an asian girl growing up on a council estate in Leicester. The way it’s a multi-cultural city and yet a child can still stand out as being different because of the way her family express their beliefs, for Ravine it’s the way her mother dresses, and the way she has her dress. Ravine compares herself in childhood to her best friend Marianne, whose family is also asian but they dress in jeans and t-shirts and so fit in better. There are many memorable characters who live near Ravine, who are all so richly-drawn – even the ones we only hear about, such as the old lady across the landing from Ravine’s family. There is a real sense that everyone has their own problems to deal with and gradually through the book we get to see this. Ravine as a child, and then as a teenager stuck in her bedroom, doesn’t get to see the subtitles of why people are the way they are but we, the reader, really see the pain in what some people have to live through.
Ultimately though, this is a novel about memories; it’s a look at how we can, through no fault of our own, remember things differently than they were; it’s a look at how sometimes we choose to delude ourselves because the truth is just too painful to bear. It’s a novel about how we protect ourselves from the most painful parts of life, it’s about how we survive when the worst thing we can imagine happens. It’s also a look at whether redemption ever comes, whether someone should suffer for what they’re perceived to have done or whether the pain they feel inside is enough punishment. Ravine’s pain is very, very real – some of it is physical and some of it emotional but all of it is real and she has spent a more than half of her life hurting. I was rooting for Ravine all the way through this novel, and she’s someone I absolutely won’t forget any time soon.
‘Memories pretend to leave you but they’re always there. Always ready to catch you off guard, to remind you that life is never as simple as what you happen to be dealing with at the time.
There is always the past, waiting to pounce.’
This novel is stunningly beautiful for so many reasons – the gorgeous writing and the wonderful turns of phrase, the brilliant and complex characters, and for the most heartbreaking descriptions of pain, in all its forms, that I’ve read in a long time. Very occasionally, if you’re really lucky, a book will come into your life at exactly the right moment and it will break your heart but then it will mend it again and make you feel so much better; this is that book for me. I am sure that this novel will be in my top books for this year, it’s definitely one I will remember and think about for a long time to come.
The Things We Thought We Knew is out now and I highly recommend you grab a copy as soon as you can!
I was sent a copy of this book by the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
About the Author
Mahsuda Snaith was born in Luton and brought up on a Leicester council estate. She is a writer of novels, short stories and plays, and is the winner of the SI Leeds Literary Prize 2014, Bristol Short Story Prize 2014 as well as a finalist for the Mslexia Novel Competition 2013. Mahsuda leads creative writing workshops at De Montfort University, has performed her work at literary festivals and has been anthologised by The Asian Writer, Words with Jam and Closure: Contemporary Black British Stories.
Mahsuda’s first novel is The Things We Thought We Knew. It will be published by Transworld in 2017 in the UK.
(Bio taken from: http://www.watsonlittle.com/client/mahsuda-snaith. Author photo taken from twitter.)
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Very intriguing just because of you saying how it’s about how you can remember things differently to how they were. Great review, will definitely look it up!
Great review Hun x
It sounds like a powerful book. And I agree with you that it takes a deft hand to discuss something like chronic pain in real ways that don’t condescend. I’m glad you enjoyed this as much as you did.
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Check out this review of the book, The Things We Thought We Knew, by Mashuda Snaith, from the Rather Too Fond of Books blog.
Looks interesting! Another contributor at Book Riot was trying to write a post of novels that dealt with chronic pain but we have diversity requirements and they couldn’t find enough books by authors of color. I’ll have to let her know that this seems like a great book to add!
Sounds like a powerful book! Good review
Your review made me all emotional! Beautifully written. I’m reading this soon for the tour, too. Love your review xx
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Wow, yes, that premise. It surely is interesting! I’d love to read about that. How do you get on these awesome blog tours 🙂
This sounds fascinating, I thought so from your comments about receiving it. I love coming-of-age stories and it’s great that the author explores something like chronic pain too. I’m glad it came at the right time for you, and will definitely look out for a copy (erm, in a while, when the Terrible TBR has diminished a bit …).
I know that when the diverse book bloggers do their book bingo, there always seems to be a square about chronic pain. It doesn’t seem like there are enough books out there about the subject. Glad you found one that spoke to you.
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